Is God Only in the Extraordinary? Or in the Ordinary Too?

🙏🏾 Namaste! I'm Arun,
This reflection draws from traditional Advaita Vedanta as unfolded in public books, classes, and the living teaching methodology of the sampradāya. The aim is to pass on what I received through study with as much clarity and fidelity as possible, for the benefit of all.

You pray, you attend services, you go on pilgrimages. And sometimes, in a quiet moment of meditation or standing before a temple idol, something shifts. A feeling arrives – warm, expansive, briefly certain. Then it goes. You return to Monday morning, to traffic and deadlines and the same unwashed dishes, and whatever you felt is already fading. So you plan the next retreat. You look for the next practice that might bring it back.

This is not a personal failure. It is almost universal. The assumption underneath it, running quietly and rarely examined, is that God belongs to those moments – the elevated ones, the deliberately sacred ones – and not to the rest. The temple visit counts. The commute does not. The meditation hour is spiritual. The grocery run is not. God is somewhere in the heightened register of experience, and ordinary life is the waiting room you sit in between visits.

This assumption shapes everything about how people search. They gravitate toward the unusual – pilgrimage sites, peak experiences, charismatic teachers who seem to carry a different kind of charge. The logic is understandable: if God is greater than the ordinary, then God must appear in what is greater than the ordinary. The extraordinary seems like the right address.

There is a story that illustrates this precisely. A man loses his ring in a dark, muddy tank at the edge of a park. But when someone offers to help him search, they find him crouched under the bright lamp near the park fountain, scanning the clean pavement there instead. “Why are you looking here?” they ask. “Because the light is much better,” he says.

The man is not stupid. He is doing what the mind naturally does: going where visibility feels easier, where the conditions seem more favorable, where the search itself feels more plausible. The muddy tank is uncomfortable. The lamplight is clear and pleasant. But the ring is not under the lamp. It never was.

The search for God in extraordinary experiences follows exactly this structure. The exotic retreat, the rare vision, the moment of ecstatic prayer – these feel like better lighting. They are easier to notice. They carry a felt quality that seems spiritual. And so the search concentrates there, in the bright, comfortable places, while the ordinary – the mud, the dailiness, the utterly unremarkable – gets passed over as unpromising ground.

What the search misses is not that God is hiding in the mud. It is that the entire tank, mud and water and darkness and all, is where the ring actually is. The ordinary is not the obstacle to finding God. It is the location.

But pointing to the ordinary as the location is not enough by itself. Before that can land, something more fundamental has to be examined: what kind of thing God is being assumed to be. Because the search under the lamplight is not just a matter of looking in the wrong place. It rests on a prior error – a specific misunderstanding of God’s nature that makes the extraordinary seem like the only viable address.

Dismantling the “Event-Based” God: Why God is Not a Missing Object

The search described in Section 1 carries a hidden assumption worth naming precisely: that God is currently absent. That somewhere, somehow, the divine has not yet arrived – and the right experience, the right place, the right state of mind will finally cause it to appear. This assumption is so natural it rarely gets examined. But examined, it collapses.

Think about what it would mean for God to “appear” in a meditation session or a pilgrimage. If God appears, there was a time before the appearance when God was not there. If the vision fades – and all visions fade – God has departed. This is the logic of a finite thing. A lamp switches on and off. Rain arrives and stops. Emotions surge and subside. These are all examples of what the tradition calls āgama-apāyī – that which is subject to arrival and departure. Anything described by those two words is, by definition, temporary. And anything temporary is finite. A finite God is simply a powerful object. It is not the infinite reality the word “God” is actually meant to point toward.

This is not a personal failure of meditation. The confusion is structural. When we seek God as an event – a vision, a feeling of bliss, a supernatural occurrence – we have already placed God in the category of things that happen and then stop happening. The infinite cannot fit in that category, no matter how spectacular the event.

There is a second problem, equally fundamental. Any experience, however extraordinary, has a perceiver. You see the vision. You feel the bliss. You witness the miracle. This means the experience is an object – something presented to awareness, something the mind encounters and registers. The tradition has a precise term for this: dṛśya, the seen, the perceived, the object of experience. The senses report it. The mind processes it. The memory stores it. Everything that passes through that sequence is dṛśya.

Now consider the implication. If God appears as an object of your experience, then you – the one having the experience – are standing outside God, looking in. You are prior to the God you have just perceived. Which would make you more fundamental than God, which is absurd. Or it would mean the God you perceived is not actually the infinite reality but merely a powerful appearance within your experience. Either way, the logic fails. As the notes state directly: “If God is an object of your experience, then you the experiencer are separate from and prior to God.”

This is not a clever philosophical puzzle. It describes exactly what happens when someone says “I had a vision of God” and then spends the rest of their life trying to have it again. They are chasing a dṛśya – an object that came and went. The God they are looking for has been misidentified from the start.

The confusion is understandable. We are trained from birth to find things by looking for them. If something is missing, you search until you locate it. The ring is either in your pocket or it isn’t; you check until you find it. This method works perfectly for every object in the world. It fails completely when applied to God, because God is not a missing object. There is no place where God is absent that you could travel to and confirm the absence. The very awareness you would use to conduct that search is itself what you are looking for – but we are getting ahead of ourselves.

For now, the conclusion is this: the God worth finding cannot be āgama-apāyī, cannot arrive and depart like a guest. And the God worth finding cannot be dṛśya, cannot be an object standing across from a perceiver. Strip away every experience that fits either description – and that includes the most luminous mystical vision you can imagine – and the question becomes sharper: what exactly is God, if not an event and not an object? What kind of reality remains when you remove everything temporary and everything perceivable?

God as the Non-Separate Cause: The Fabric of All Existence

If God is not a temporary event and not an object of experience, a question becomes unavoidable: what, then, is the relationship between God and this world? The universe clearly exists. You are reading this. The floor is under your feet. If God is real and the world is real, they must be related in some way – and the nature of that relationship is everything.

The obvious answer, the one most people carry without examining it, is that God made the world. A creator and a creation. A craftsman and his product. The potter shapes the clay and then sets the pot down, walks away, and the pot exists independently. This is the mental image – God as cosmic manufacturer, the world as finished goods. It is a satisfying image. It is also the source of the central confusion.

A potter is separate from the pot. The clay was already there; the potter merely shaped it. When the work is done, the pot can exist without the potter, and the potter can exist without the pot. There is a clear boundary between them. If this is the model for God and the universe, then God is elsewhere – separate from matter, separate from you, separate from the table in front of you. The universe becomes a product that God shipped and then left. Finding God would mean locating the manufacturer, somewhere outside the manufactured goods.

Vedanta holds that this model is exactly wrong. Not partially wrong – structurally wrong.

The reason is specific. When a human craftsman makes something, two things are already given: the maker, and the material. The potter arrives with the clay already present. But before the universe existed, there was no material lying around. There was no pre-existing substance for God to shape. Space itself did not yet exist. Time itself did not yet exist. The material from which the universe is made had to come from somewhere – and the only somewhere available was God. There was nothing else.

This means God is not only the intelligent designer of the universe. God is also the very substance of it. The technical term Vedanta uses for this is abhinna-nimitta-upādāna-kāraṇa – the non-separate intelligent and material cause. Break it apart: nimitta-kāraṇa is the intelligent cause, the designer, the one with the plan. Upādāna-kāraṇa is the material cause, the substance from which something is made. Abhinna means non-separate, not-different. God is both, simultaneously, and they are not two roles played by a single God – they are inseparable, because there was no other material to be found.

Consider a spider and its web. The spider does not fetch silk from a separate store and then weave it. The silk comes from the spider itself, out of the spider’s own body. The spider is both the weaver and the material woven. The web is not separate from the spider in the way a pot is separate from a potter. The web is, in a real sense, the spider – expressed, extended, made visible. When you look at the web, you are looking at a form the spider has taken.

God’s relationship to the universe is like that. The universe is not a product God manufactured and then left behind. It is a form God has taken – expressed outward from God’s own being, with no separate raw material involved. The world is not made by God the way furniture is made by a carpenter. The world is, in a precise sense, made of God.

This changes what the search for God actually means. If the web is the spider extended outward, there is no point looking for the spider somewhere beyond the web. The spider is present throughout the web, as its very substance. Every thread is the spider made visible. Looking past the web for the “real” spider is the wrong direction entirely.

The ordinary world – the floor, the water, the insect, the cloud – is not a veil hiding God behind it. It is God expressed. Not a symbol pointing toward God. Not a clue leading to God. The substance of which each ordinary thing is made is the substance of God, because there was no other substance available.

This is not poetry. It is a logical consequence of taking seriously what it would mean for God to be the source of everything, including space, time, and matter. Once you accept that premise, the “craftsman who stays separate from his product” model becomes impossible to hold. The non-separate cause is not a mystical claim. It is the only coherent answer to the question: where did the material come from?

What this means for the ordinary world is beginning to come into view – but the question now is what it actually looks like to see the ordinary world this way. Understanding the logic of non-separation is one thing. Recognizing it in a glass of water, in the street outside, in the unremarkable Tuesday afternoon – that requires something more.

The Universe as God’s Manifestation: Divinizing the Ordinary

Since God is both the maker and the material of everything that exists, a direct consequence follows: the world is not merely something God produced. It is God, in a manifested form.

This distinction matters. When a carpenter builds a table, the wood is one thing and the carpenter is another. The carpenter goes home; the table remains. But when a spider produces its web, nothing new has been imported from outside. The web is the spider’s own substance, extended outward. God’s relationship to the universe is the second kind, not the first. Which means the universe, in its entirety, carries within it the very substance of God. There is no portion of creation that is “secular” – left behind, unvisited, spiritually inert – while another portion is “sacred.” The division was always a mental projection, not a fact about the world.

What, then, is available in every object, without exception? Its very existence. The fact that a thing is – that it has presence, that it occupies reality rather than absence – that “is-ness” is what the tradition calls Sat. And that Sat is God. Not a symbol of God. Not a pointer toward God. God as the actual being of the thing. The pillar has it. The dust has it. The glass of water on your table has it. Whatever you are looking at right now has it.

This is where the word vibhūti becomes precise. It means the manifest glory of God – not glory in the sense of spectacle, but glory in the sense of what is actually present when anything at all exists. We tend to reserve the word “miraculous” for events that break ordinary patterns: a sudden healing, a strange light, a vision in meditation. But consider what is sitting unexamined in any ordinary object.

A tiny insect, no larger than the tip of a needle, found in the crease of a book. Look at it carefully. That speck contains a fully operational digestive system, a reproductive system, a defense system – all functioning, all coordinated, all miniaturized beyond anything human engineering can replicate. We cannot manufacture a single self-replicating organism. Not one. Yet this level of intelligence, this precision, appears in something we brush off a page without a second thought. The cosmic intelligence responsible for that insect is the same intelligence that is the cause, the material, and the very being of the entire universe. We simply did not stop to look.

The mistake we make is to scan the horizon for something large. We assume that if God is present, the presence must announce itself – through scale, through rarity, through departure from the normal. But the normal is the announcement. Every moment of existence, in anything that exists, is vibhūti. The sunrise is not more divine than the glass it illuminates. The galaxy is not closer to God than the grain of sand. They are all, equally, God’s own being extended into form.

This does not flatten everything into a grey sameness. The spider’s web is intricate; a handful of mud is not. The insect is astonishing; a pebble is unremarkable. These differences are real. But the Sat – the is-ness running through all of them – is the same, undiminished, in every case. The differences are in the form. The divinity is in the existence itself.

Which means no part of your daily life is spiritually empty. The food on your plate, the floor under your feet, the person sitting across from you, the sound of rain – each of these exists. That existence is not a neutral fact. It is God being present as that thing, at that moment, without interruption.

And yet, knowing this intellectually is one thing. Most of us, when we look at a familiar room, do not see vibhūti. We see furniture. The question is not whether God is there – God is there – but whether we have the eyes to recognize what is already in front of us.

The Eye of Wisdom: Changing Our Vision, Not the World

The world does not need to become more sacred. You need to see what it already is.

This sounds like a slogan until you examine what actually happens when something ordinary becomes extraordinary in your eyes. Consider what [SP] describes with George Harrison’s guitar. A battered wooden instrument sits on a table. Someone picks it up, looks it over, and offers ten dollars for it – it is old, scratched, nothing special. Then a single piece of information arrives: this guitar belonged to George Harrison. The bidding starts. The price reaches thousands. The wood has not changed. The scratches are still there. The weight is the same. What changed is the name superimposed on it – and with that name, every quality of the guitar that was previously invisible becomes suddenly visible. The grain of the wood. The particular wear on the frets. These are the same facts, now lit differently.

This is not just a story about guitars. It is a precise description of what the eye of wisdom does. The Sanskrit term is jñāna-cakṣuḥ – not a physical alteration of the eyes, not a mystical enhancement of perception, but a change in what name you are placing on what you see. Right now, when you look at a tree, a cup of water, your own hand, you are unconsciously placing a small name on it: this is just a tree, just water, just a hand. The name you place determines what you notice. What you notice determines what meaning you extract. What meaning you extract determines whether the moment feels sacred or empty.

The technical term for this placement of a name is adhyāsa – superimposition, the act of reading one thing through the lens of another. Everyone already does this constantly. The confusion is not that we superimpose; the confusion is that we are superimposing a diminished name when a precise one is available. Vedanta does not ask you to imagine divinity into objects. It points out that the is-ness of every object – the sheer fact that it exists at all – is already what was identified in Section 4 as Sat, the presence of God as existence itself. The jñāna-cakṣuḥ does not manufacture this. It recognizes what was there before you were looking at it through the wrong label.

This is worth pausing over, because the objection arises naturally here. It feels like wishful thinking – like choosing to call a muddy field beautiful because you have decided to call it beautiful. But the George Harrison parallel cuts through this precisely. The person who calls the guitar junk and the person who pays thousands for it are not disagreeing about the wood. They have different information about what the wood is in contact with. Jñāna-cakṣuḥ is not a decision to feel a certain way about the world. It is accurate information about what the world is in contact with – specifically, that it is non-separate from the cause that produced it. The mud is extraordinary not because you have chosen to see it that way, but because you now know what it actually is.

The practical consequence of this shift is what [SD] names prasāda – recognizing every experience, not just the pleasant ones, as a gift from the divine order. Prasāda in ordinary usage means the food offered to a deity and then received back. The receiving back matters: what arrives to you has already passed through something larger than the transaction. When life is seen through jñāna-cakṣuḥ, this is not a ritual metaphor. Every experience – the glass of water, the traffic jam, the conversation that went nowhere – arrives through the same cosmic intelligence that assembled the insect from Section 4. None of it is outside the fabric. None of it is secular residue sitting at the margins of a spiritual world. It is all the same substance, arriving continuously.

This normalization of the divine in the ordinary is not something the contemplative tradition discovered by becoming calmer or more detached. It is the direct result of understanding what the cause-effect relationship between God and the universe actually implies. If God is the material – if the gold is what the ornaments are made of – then there is no part of the ornament that is non-gold. There is no part of your day that falls outside the fabric. The ordinary is not a lesser version of the sacred. It is the sacred, wearing the names we gave it before we knew what it was.

But here a sharper question forms. If God is everywhere and everything carries God’s is-ness, why can we not simply see God directly – the way we see a tree or a mountain? The shift in vision is clear, but it still feels like something is missing. It feels like the vision itself should eventually land on God as its object.

The Seer, Not the Seen: Why God Cannot Be an Object of Perception

There is a structural reason the search keeps failing, and it has nothing to do with effort.

When someone says “I want to see God,” they are framing the search in a precise way: there is a seer, and God is what they hope to see. This feels natural. It is how we find everything else – we look, and eventually the thing comes into view. But this framing contains an assumption that quietly guarantees failure. It assumes God belongs to the category of things that can be seen, heard, touched, or known as objects. And that assumption is exactly what needs to be examined.

Every object you have ever perceived – a mountain, a sound, a feeling of joy, a vision during meditation, a flash of light in deep stillness – has one thing in common. It appeared to you. It was illuminated. Something made it knowable. You were there, aware of it, prior to it. That “something” doing the illuminating is what Vedanta calls Dṛk – the Seer, the pure Subject, the Witness-Consciousness. Without this Seer, no object, however extraordinary, could be perceived at all.

Now consider what this means for the search. If a mystic vision appears in meditation, it appears to you, the Witness. The vision is dṛśya – an object of experience. It is lit up by the same Consciousness that lit up the breakfast plate this morning. The experience may be rarer, more intense, more emotionally charged – but in terms of structure, it is identical to any other perceived thing: it arose, it lasted, it ended. The Consciousness that witnessed it neither arose nor ended. That Consciousness is Dṛk.

This is why [SP] says the search for God as an object is a structural impossibility. Not a spiritual failing. Not a lack of devotion. A structural impossibility. He offers a simple, exact illustration: the eye can see a mountain, a river, a face – but the eye cannot turn around and see itself. The act of seeing requires a seer that is never itself seen. You can examine the eye in a mirror, but what is doing that examining? Another seer. The Subject always retreats one step behind every attempt to capture it.

If you follow this logic carefully, something shifts. Any experience you have ever had – sacred or mundane, extraordinary or routine – was an object. What was never an object, in any of those experiences, was the Awareness in which they all appeared. That Awareness is not something you have. It is what you are. And it is what the tradition means by Dṛk.

This is not a dismissal of devotion, prayer, or sacred experience. Those have their place and their function in the teaching. But the moment you look for God in any experience, however exalted, you are looking in the category of dṛśya – the seen, the temporary, the object. You are, in that very act, overlooking the one thing that has been constant across every experience you have ever had: the Seer itself.

The search, then, has not been wrong in its longing – only in its direction. It has been looking outward for something that was never an object. The next question is the natural one: if the Seer is God, and I am the Seer, then who am I?

The Seeker Is the Sought

The Tenth Man story works like this. Ten men cross a river together. On the other side, one of them counts the group to make sure everyone made it. He counts nine. He counts again. Nine. Panic sets in. Someone is missing. Another man comes along, sees the distress, and counts them himself. Ten. “You are the tenth,” he tells the first counter. “You forgot to count yourself.” No new person arrived. No one had been lost. Only a counting error was corrected.

This is precisely what has happened in the search for God.

The man who counted nine was not stupid. He applied the same method he would use to count trees or stones – looking outward, tallying objects. His error was structural. He was trying to count the counter. The search for God as something extraordinary that must arrive, as a vision that appears in deep meditation, as a sacred location somewhere else, as a miracle breaking into ordinary time – that search applies the same method to the wrong object. It looks outward for what is doing the looking.

You have been the tenth man all along.

What you actually are, underneath the roles and the memories and the thinking – is the awareness in which all of this is happening. Not the thoughts about awareness. Not the feeling of being aware. The awareness itself. Philosophers call it the Witness, the Seer, Dṛk. It is not a state you enter. It is not something that arrives during meditation and leaves afterwards. It has no arrival date, which means it has no departure date either. Every experience you have ever had – the boring ones, the frightening ones, the sacred ones, the tedious Tuesday afternoons – has been illuminated by this same, unchanged Witness. It was there before the extraordinary experience began. It was there after it ended. It is here now, reading these words.

This is not a metaphor. It is a structural fact about experience.

The Sat – the is-ness – of every object in the universe is God. The Am-ness at the center of your own experience is the same reality. Not similar to it. Not an echo of it. The same. When the notes say “you are not a human being looking for a spiritual experience, but a spiritual being temporarily having a human experience,” this is what that means in plain terms: the Witness that illuminates your search is the very thing you are searching for. The seeker and the sought are not two different entities with a gap between them that must be closed. The gap was the confusion.

This dissolves something that every previous section was building toward. God is not extraordinary because God is in the galaxies and not in the dust. God is not in the ordinary because God condescends to visit the mundane. The entire frame – extraordinary versus ordinary, sacred versus secular, here versus there – was built on the assumption that God is an object somewhere in the field of experience. Remove that assumption, and both sides of the distinction collapse. What remains is the one Witness in whom both the extraordinary and the ordinary appear, unchanged by either, present before and after each.

The Tenth Man did not gain anything when the error was corrected. He did not become the tenth man. He always was. What changed was only the counting.

Nothing is added to you by this understanding. No new state is achieved. No extraordinary experience needs to arrive. The awareness you are using right now to follow this argument – unhurried, impersonal, already here – is not a pale substitute for the divine presence you were searching for. It is the divine presence. The ordinary moment you are sitting in, with its sounds and light and the slight weight of your own body, is not a waiting room outside the sacred. The is-ness of every single thing in it is God, and the Am-ness aware of all of it is you, and they are not two.

The search ends not with a discovery but with a correction. The ring was never in the fountain. It was in the tank where you left it – in the only place experience has ever actually happened, which is here, in the ordinary, lit by the Witness that you are.